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Book I, Chapter 15

1.When one consulted him, How he might persuade his Brother to forbear treating him ill: Philosophy, answered Epictetus, doth not promise to procure any thing external to Man; otherwise it would admit something beyond its proper Subject-matter. For the Subject-matter of a Carpenter is Wood; of a Statuary, Brass: and so, of the Art of Living, the Subject-matter is each Person’s own Life.

What, then, is my Brother’s?

That, again, belongs to his own Art [of Living]; but to your’s is external: like an Estate, like Health, like reputation. Now Philosophy promises none of these. In every Circumstance I will preserve the governing Part conformable to Nature. Whose governing Part? His in whom I exist.

But how, then, is my Brother to lay aside his Anger against me?

Bring him to me, and I will tell him; but I have nothing to say to you about his Anger.

2.Well: but I still farther ask, How am I to keep myself in a State of Mind conformable to Nature, though he should not be reconciled to me?

No great Thing is brought to Perfection suddenly; when not so much as a Bunch of Grapes or a Fig is. If you tell me, that you would at this Minute have a Fig, I will answer you, that there must be Time. Let it first blossom, then bear Fruit, then ripen. Is then the Fruit of a Fig tree not brought to Perfection suddenly, and in one Hour; and would you possess the Fruit of the human Mind in so short a Time, and without Trouble? I tell you, expect no such thing.